J. Michael "Mikey" Decker, leadership and career coach, smiling outdoors near a marina at sunset with boats in the background.
J. Michael "Mikey" Decker, leadership and career coach, smiling outdoors near a marina at sunset with boats in the background.

Coach the Person, Not the Problem.

I’m Mikey. For more than fifteen years, my job was leading peers, direct reports, and cross-functional project teams, and coaching is the part I always came back to.

Somewhere along the way, I realized the conversations I looked forward to most weren’t the ones where I solved someone’s problem. They were the ones where I helped someone become more capable of solving the next one without me.

That’s the distinction I’ve come to love: coach the person, not the problem. The problem in front of us matters, but the person across from me is the one who has to navigate it, and a hundred others after it.

If you want the path that taught me that, it’s here.

How I got here

This is why I stepped away from the day job to do this on purpose.

Coaching is the most meaningful work I know how to do. Watching someone find their footing, trust their own instincts, or begin leading in a way that actually feels like theirs, that’s what I’m here for.

I bring more than fifteen years of real leadership experience to it, and I’m continuing to develop my craft through formal coach training and practice.

“Mike is someone you want on your team. He combines his high aesthetic, creativity, and genuine interest in people to dig into insights and inspire other talent to form associations between objects or subjects that at first seem to have nothing in common. In practice, this means that Mike can approach routine tasks from a different direction and with an alternative perspective… It is so much fun and always surprising to see the outstanding results of what Mike inspires others to create! It's truly magic.”

- Leah

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